Fragile

Life is short. I can’t seem to comprehend that statement. Life is short. There are hints all around: sickness/disease, funerals, Bible scriptures, seasons, friends in the final stages of cancer, broken gifts that break my heart, and so much more. But do I really understand that life is short?

Every day I’m focused on today and what’s happening: work, dishes, coffee with friends, trying to be the best me I can be, laundry, eating breakfast while driving, raking leaves, and so my life goes. I struggle with how to keep the perspective that this life is short so make it count at the same time that I’m “doing” life.

In Colossians 3:1-2, I read “If you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above where Christ is seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on the things that are above, not on things that are on earth.” How on earth (pun intended) am I supposed to do that? Set my mind on things above. Christ is seated at the right hand of God IN heaven. I interpret this as keep your mind on heaven, at the very minimum. (“Jesus…is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.” Hebrews 12:2)

My husband has been doing this very well – he’s constantly talking about how he wants his house in heaven to look like (root beer trees as an example) and continually trying to figure out when he is going to get there.

I had a very interesting reaction to a gift that was given to me for my birthday. My reaction took me completely by surprise and I think it was God helping me to understand that life is short.

To help give some background and describe me a little bit, I do not get sentimental with things. I don’t hold on to the doll that Sally gave me in the 2nd grade because it meant so much to me. Nope, not me at all. I don’t even remember that Sally gave me anything, and I tossed the doll once I stopped playing with it.

That is why, when I received the gift in the mail and I completely fell apart – sobbing and all – that I surprised myself so much of this (frankly) embarrassing reaction! It was completely NOT me! However, it was not the gift itself that caused me to be the blubbering fool, but it was that the gift was broken when it arrived.

Oh, I could tell that the sender took great precautions to keep it safe: bubble wrap everywhere, sturdy box, lots of tape, etc. And yet, it still shattered into pieces.

I think it is the same with us. We take all sorts of precautions to keep our life “safe,” and all the while, we don’t have any control over the length of our days. Sure, we can (and should!) eat right, exercise, get lots of sleep, be safe on the road, etc., but at any moment “Fool! This night your soul is required of you…” (Luke 12:20)

Lord, help me to keep my mind set on things above and on You, and “teach me to number my days that I may gain a heart of wisdom!” (Psalm 90:12)

“The grass withers, the flower fades but the word of our God will stand forever.”  (Isaiah 40:8)

 

Bad Rap

Lacking nothing. Sounds too good to be true. I’d like to lack nothing. How about being perfect and whole or complete? Is that possible?

Patience got a bad rap.

Whenever you mention patience, people roll their eyes. I think its because patience sure doesn’t sound all that great, especially if it means having to wait for things. I don’t think we’re good at that.  Its about the destination, not the journey. Or is it?

But patience is a fruit of the Spirit so it must be a good thing? Somehow.

Gets me to thinkin’. If I were truly patient, I wouldn’t worry. I wouldn’t be anxious about things not yet completed or arrived. If I was completely patient, I would be content in any situation. I would be as James put it “perfect and complete, lacking-nothing.”

“Let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.” (James 1:4 NKJV)

Now that sounds good!

There’s a Christian theory that has been passed down through the ages that in order to get patience, God will bring you trials. If you’re like me, it makes the sound of wanting patience like wanting to be a martyr. If you wanted patience, you’d want trials. Who wants trials?! Yuck!

But who wants to lack nothing? Me! Me! Me!

Let’s use this same theory with the other fruit of the Spirit: Love. So in order to get love, God would bring you the unlovable. Hmm. Or peace. To get peace, God would bring a storm. Or self-control, God would bring you something you can’t live without.

I dunno. I used to disagree with the theory. But I’m finding that the theory, though it has some flaws, may have some substance to it. In order to demonstrate true love, I think it would be best proven when you don’t feel love at all. Or to go through a tough storm and still maintain peace, would be real peace. Etc. I still think patience has gotten the bad rap because patience is pretty awesome – to have to wait for something and yet be confidently content – way cool!

If our number one goal is to be more like Jesus, then we’ve got a lot to work on. And if it means going through the muck and yuck of life to get there, then I’m in! God, have your perfect work done in me!

Reminds me of one of my favorite verses in the Bible because of the impact it has had on my life. It is when we are weak, can’t lean on our own intellect or talent or strength, but can only lean on God, that is when we can exhibit the fruit of the Spirit. When in all natural strength, it is not possible. Then God.

“But He (God) said to me, ‘My grace (My favor and loving-kindness and mercy) is enough for you [sufficient against any danger and enables you to bear the trouble manfully]; for My strength and power are made perfect (fulfilled and completed) and show themselves most effective in [your] weakness.’ Therefore, I will all the more gladly glory in my weaknesses and infirmities, that the strength and power of Christ (the Messiah) may rest (yes, may pitch a tent over and dwell) upon me!

We must decrease, so that He can increase. Then we can be perfect and complete, lacking-nothing!

Patience is cool! Lord God, bring me more!